Monday, January 22, 2007

1979 (stolen from Sasssy!)

In 1979 (the year you were born)

Jimmy Carter is president of the US

A major accident occurs at a nuclear reactor on Three Mile Island near Middletown, PA

An American Airlines DC-10 loses its engine and crashes seconds after takeoff, killing 275 people

Hurricane David kills over 1200 in the US and the Dominican Republic

Some 90 people, including 63 Americans, are taken hostage at the American Embassy in Tehran, Iran

The Soviet Union invades Afghanistan

ESPN starts broadcasting

Aaliyah, Jennifer Love Hewitt, Norah Jones, Heath Ledger, and Kate Hudson are born

Pittsburgh Pirates win the World Series

Pittsburgh Steelers win Superbowl XIII

Montreal Canadiens win the Stanley Cup

Kramer vs. Kramer is the top grossing film

Sophie's Choice by William Styron is published

"My Sharona" by The Knack spends the most time at the top of the US charts

The Facts of Life premiers

Monday, January 15, 2007

Rekindling

I started doing a little reflection recently, a friend of mine has confided in me that she has found out her mother is having an affair on her father. I have known this family since I was 5 years old, her father coached our soft ball team when we where kids. They have 4 girls together ranging in age from 28 to 8. I thought they were the ones that would make it. I always envied my girl friend for having two loving parents under the same roof and to think 30 years later this happens. This is part of what terrifies me about relationships, I know I am lucky and Jman is incredible but what about 30 years from now? It just makes you think. I think some of it has to do with not really looking at the other person or staying connected. I think way too often we get caught up and forget that a marriage hell any relationship takes work and lots of it. So this weekend I decided I wasn't gonna care about all the other crap that normally fills my life and pay attention to every one in my house and guess what?



I had a really great weekend!! We really didn't so anything but Jman and I spent a lot of quality time together and put all the chores aside. It seems lately we have begun to consume our lives with all the things that have to get done and stuff we want to do that we have forgotten to sit quietly with each other and enjoy each other. Well this weekend we did that we lounged cuddled on the couch and watched movies, we downloaded songs together for my ipod. We did our food shopping just the two of us. We went to bed at the same time (and rekindled a little there he :) ) It was so nice to remember why we love each other, what attracts us to each other.

It's so nice to do that every once in a while just slow down. These days life happens so fast that sometimes it feels like it may run you over. Sometimes you seem to be in fast forward with out even realizing it, and when you do when something unexpected catches your eye it's almost scary because all this time has past and have you truly appreciated it? The time with your children, have you appreciated all the little things the art projects, the quirky things they say, or have you just done your job as a parent? My daughter is giving me a wakeup call lately, it's strange to look at her now and realize she is truly her own person and soon she will want little of my advice. She is changing everyday. My son may be a challenge most days but he is an amazing kid very loving and empathetic. These are the times I truly want ingrained in my memories. And if I don't slow down and take them in well will they be clear memories or just a foggy past?

I am trying to teach my self that the work deadline will still be there tomorrow but my family can change in a day.

Saturday, January 13, 2007

Cool Calm and Collected

You Are As Cool As They Come

Rational and relaxed, no one could accuse you of being dramatic.
You roll with the punches, and nothing ever gets you too worked up.
You are able to maintain perspective and see the big picture.

And even if you're emotional inside, you don't let it show.
You're great at keeping it together, and you're rewarded for that.
People see you as an ideal friend, employee, and partner.

Friday, January 12, 2007

Summer Anthem

Your 2006 Summer Anthem Is

Dani California by the Red Hot Chili Peppers

"She's a lover, baby, and a fighter
Shoulda seen it comin' when it got a little brighter
With a name like "Dani California"
Day was gonna come when I was gonna mourn ya
A little loaded she was stealin' another breath
I love my baby to death"

AAAHHHHHH!!

I am mentally exhausted today. I am just so glad that this week is OVER! As most of you know I am in payroll and benefits. Well we had open enrollment over the last month and wow what a wirlwind that was. We also payout vacation and 1/2 of this sick at the end of the year and that had to be done for last pay period. Oh and W2's came in and needed to be checked and distributed. I am drained and my brain can not hold any more this week, I think it went on strike last night.

I am trying to prepare for next week we have annual reviews and rate changes to be done and retroed back to the first of the year.

On other news I got a new couch yesterday and I am sooo excited I love the color and it is so comfortable plus it has 2 recliners whoooo hoooo!! My old couch is 10 years old and very broken.

Monday, January 08, 2007

Exhale

It was deffinatley a long Holiday season this year but we are now returning to our routines. We made it through, the kids are back to school and we are both back to work. J'man hasn't been able to see his kids since before Christmas and it really bothered him in the beginning but I think he is getting used to it (which is sad on it's own)

Work is good but I work right next to a girl who is beginning to get on my nerves!! She is a little too upity, which would be ok if I didn't get the feeling like half the time she wasn't looking down her nose at me.

Other wise I really haven't got a thing to complaine about, we had an really nice holiday with my family and I got a diamond necklace (who wouldn't like that)

I realized how lucky I am having Jman in my life he is so attentive and sweet, I definatley lucked out.

I hope you all are doing well and had really lovely holidays as well